help please: getting started

[bishop]

yeah, thanks man, all thoughts are valued.

i can say i am pretty confident, and ive been having an easier and easier time talking to her as time goes on. today i feel like i took a big step in the right direction. we were able just to goof off a little and have some laughs today which felt really good.

i kinda blame school for this also, with my friends there is hardly ever a dull moment and awkward situations.

[bishop]

aarrgg!!!! im a having a problem and need help.

shes going on a date with another guy and im not sure what to do, just let things go the way they go and keep trying or intervene or let my head melt. arg!
life is so freaking hard.

[volmer]

If she's going out with another guy, that means she likes her or would accept him as her boyfriend, a.k.a. GAME OVER. Sorry, but thats the cold hard truth.

[bishop]

!#@$!# i think it might just be a friendly go to the movies.

[volmer]

If they only went by themselves, then theres no hope. If they had at least one friend with them, you might be lucky.. Or well, not lucky, but just... temporarily satisfied.

[OutbackBlazer]

First off do not panic
she could be testing you

be calm and keep getting to know her better, if you panic it is all over she will put you as the jealous type. You do not want that.

did she not just go out with you in the beginning as friends,
Try to ask her to something fun not dinner or a movie, but like a theme park or something of that sort. Your not looking for romantic, you should be looking for if she interested in you, after your our sure she really likes you then go in for the kill so to say. take her to that really nice Gothic restaurant.
and then go to a movie.

You will do fine Just Do Not Panic, Girls LOVE Confidence Dont they Nicky

[bishop]

been a while, everything is cleared up, yay.

still havent gotten much farther because she was sick and there have been several breaks between now and then....

hi.

[Cranix]

Dude. I re-read this entire thread again... I didnt pay the greatest attention to the dates... I'm lame I know... But chill bro, you're gonna make it, lol.