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Old 06-13-2007, 11:03 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default 1 year anniversary

It's in 10 days and I have no idea what to do. I'm only 16 and she's 17, any ideas?
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Old 06-14-2007, 05:11 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Well your off to a good start just by remembering lol......

A nice dinner, followed by a movie would be appropriate considering your ages.

Have a great time!

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Old 06-14-2007, 07:00 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I agree with TJ - big points for remembering.

If you want to give a gift - something small, but meaningful and thoughtful. A nice card and a single rose are very romantic. I'm not sure what other gift suggestions to offer since I know nothing about your girlfriend.

As for the date, a nice dinner at a quiet restaurant or better yet...cook dinner for her. If you are not much of a cook yet, I'm sure your parents would give you a hand if you asked nicely. A movie is nice, but another idea, since it is summer, is to look for local outside music or theatre events in your area. If you can find one, many times you can pack a picnic dinner and spend some time together under the stars enjoying some music or a play at a relatively low cost. It's also just something different and new to try.

If you let me know where you are from, I'm happy to help you look around for some other ideas.

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Old 06-14-2007, 07:27 AM   #4 (permalink)
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i have a 6 month anniversary, coming up in 11 days. and i am going to try to recreate atleast a little bit of the way i asked her out. litlte back ground info...she recently broke up with her bf bc she started to like me, and this was just before christmas. and her parents thought that was mean but she had grown impatient with her ex and grew towards me hence the break up. we went on a few date sorta things. and i had invited her over for christmas desert since she couldnt leave her family for dinner but as punishment she was not allowed to leave her house that night. so i brought over some of the desert that was served that night and asked her out shortly after... anyway, im gonna take her out and find aplace where we can have that same desert as the night i asked her out, and maybe even a little christmas music.

something i suggest is recreate your first date, or the time you first asked her out or first kiss, or something to that extent. i dont know your girl at all but i know mine will like what i m going to do. hope for the best for you, and have fun.
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Old 06-16-2007, 06:08 AM   #5 (permalink)
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well congrats on remembering. i remember the day, and the time to the minute (not the second im notthat sad )

hmm best to get a small present and a card or similar and take her out somewhere, make sure its food she enjoys as it will make it even better. Maybe Cook dinner as said, i made fresh italian (pizza and garlic bread), made it all from scratch even the base . also gave a rose and a bunch of flowers as well. Then spent the night in with her which is also nice and "watched" a movie

always remember enjoy the night your self and dont drink to much =)
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Old 06-16-2007, 01:33 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Scorpiouk,

Let's not suggest that Haste have anything to drink at all...he's only 16!!

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Old 06-18-2007, 11:12 AM   #7 (permalink)
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well we live in florida. and we go out alot. movies, restaurants, i cook for her, and all that jazz. I was thinking taking her to this placejaxson's ice cream parlor. Jaxson's Ice Cream Parlor | Dania Beach, Florida

she's never been there before but it's like a diner place with good food and great desserts. she loves sweets and candy (she acts 5 sometimes) and they have HUGE walls of just candy and fun stuff that i thought she might like............ but i dont want it to be "gay" idk.

any more ideas nikki ?
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Old 06-18-2007, 12:57 PM   #8 (permalink)
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hey Haste sound like you can handle the night yourself. There are a lot of ideas above that you can use. Be it recreating your first date,first kiss, a picnic or the ice cream parlor. Flowers is a must in my opinion, when I'm in a long term relationship I also always get flowers on the anniversary. Plus you don't have to go over board with flower (unless you screw up then lots of flowers. lol). Also try to make it a surprise for her, she'll probably like the fact that you remember the anniversary date.
Anyway lots of good advice from the others also, so make a plan and Storm the front, and have fun.
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Old 06-18-2007, 05:18 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Haste,

Jaxson's looks like a great place to take her - especially is she likes sweets!!! I think I may have to try and get by there next time I'm in Florida!!

I'm sure whatever you decide to do, you both will have a wonderful time. You seem to be putting a lot of care and attention in to planning this anniversary and I'm sure she will notice.

Have fun!!!

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Old 06-19-2007, 10:46 AM   #10 (permalink)
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ok thank you nikki!

if you're ever in florida, holler
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Old 06-24-2007, 03:19 PM   #11 (permalink)
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we broke up lol
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Old 06-24-2007, 04:15 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Haste,

Sorry to hear about your break-up. I'm sure this is not what you want to hear at the moment, but hang in there. You're young and there are certain to be many other relationships in your future.

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Old 06-24-2007, 05:53 PM   #13 (permalink)
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to many women out there to have "fun" with lol. dont tie yourself down to one when you can have MANY!!
your only young once, besides sometimes its better to beg forgivness then ask permission!!!


PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BUT DONT EVER FORGET THE LOVE GLOVE HA!
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Old 06-24-2007, 06:31 PM   #14 (permalink)
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to many women out there to have "fun" with lol. dont tie yourself down to one when you can have MANY!!
your only young once, besides sometimes its better to beg forgivness then ask permission!!!


PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BUT DONT EVER FORGET THE LOVE GLOVE HA!
What an excellent point!!!
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Old 06-24-2007, 09:14 PM   #15 (permalink)
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to many women out there to have "fun" with lol. dont tie yourself down to one when you can have MANY!!
your only young once, besides sometimes its better to beg forgivness then ask permission!!!


PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BUT DONT EVER FORGET THE LOVE GLOVE HA!
Hitman, i've suddenly come to realize something about you...

you're the man. Thank you for that advice.
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