Ditched :o

[MrHarras]

Well yea basically last summer me and this girl where hooking up.... then when she split with her ex to be with me the ex started getting loads of people after me... so try and scare me off so i wouldnt b with this girl. but it failed... and i stuck by her throguh all the threats etc etc then i went away a couple of weeks got back and she was with another guy.

since then as im still really good friends with her and we get on really really well... and she is now single again.... and we are always flirting and stuff hugging etc.. bt im nt sure if she wants what i want... she knows i sorta like her still.. but i dunno how to get it across about the seriousness in it... i find using words really hard... but i wanna tell her so it takes loads of weight off my chest...

and as im due to go for an operation in 3 weeks. i dont want to not tell her incase she goes off with sum1 else again.. which would really like kill me lol.



i really need soem suggestions on how i should get it across to her

[babiblu989]

MrHarras, you need to talk to this girl in order to straighten things out. It sounds like the two of you are definitely not on the same page. I can understand that you care about her very much, but if you can take the time to sit and think about it, you should. Do you really want to be with a woman that will run off with another man while you're getting an operation?

[MrHarras]

hmm true.. but i very much doubt she will... it just that now we are at the age where we go clubbing a lot and stuff like that, we always meeting new people etc... i just dnt wanna lose her.. coz last time it happened we had a massive falling out.

[babiblu989]

Awww

Well, the advice that I'm going to give you is to follow your heart. If you really want to be with this girl, then you need to talk to her and let her know how you feel. If you trust her not to leave again, then let her know that you want to be with her. It's the only way you'll know if she feels the same way.