Divorce

[weaver]

I think in a few months, I am going to open a co-moderated Divorce forum under this area...

Nikki and I will be experts soon.

[Raven]

I'll help.....

My Mrs is a divorcee

[SaPpHiRe]

I wasn't married, but felt like we were. I broke it off with my man last week.

[dwinx]

Sorry to hear that Sapph...

[SaPpHiRe]

bah, don't be sorry. It honestly was for the best. I mean, I didn't want to raise my kid around two parents who are always fighting. There was alot of things he needed to change and wasn't willing to, and I wasn't gonna force him. So, we're still friends, and it's better that way. I'm just happy we're not on bad terms about the whole thing. He still wants to be involved with his son, and I'm fine with that. I was never gonna be happy with him, and if I'm not happy, no one else will be.

It just really sucks that it didn't work out though. I would have loved that. But hey, we rushed into things, and we didn't know eachother well enough.

[HitMan]

"and if I'm not happy, no one else will be."

^^^^^^^^

isnt this every woman?

[Insomnia]

Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn. That is so true. Do not mess with a woman you will only end up regretting it... or sleeping on the couch until you apologize.

[SaPpHiRe]

geez guys, thanks lol... -_-;;

[Raven]

Sapph,

If you want a chat just PM me on Steam Friends and we can "catch up" in vent

Rob

[SaPpHiRe]

I'm still staying over at my parents since it happened, for a few more days, and they don't have a mic here or Steam... But I will get on there as soon as I get the chance <3 thanks Raven

[Nikki]

Originally Posted by HitMan

"and if I'm not happy, no one else will be."

^^^^^^^^

isnt this every woman?

There's an old saying HitMan....

"If Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!"

I think it holds true in a great many families.

[AboAly]

Originally Posted by SaPpHiRe

I'm still staying over at my parents since it happened, for a few more days, and they don't have a mic here or Steam... But I will get on there as soon as I get the chance <3 thanks Raven

Hey Veronica if your anywhere near Ottawa I'm still offering to buy that Cake, and my advice to you after separation, after personal experience, the best medicine is keep smiling, laugh a lot and smile again.

[SaPpHiRe]

Thanks Abo How about we make it a date? lol <3

[FemFatale]

Hey guys, I know that I'm no expert at all, being that I'm 17 and have yet to be married but...sapph im sure it sucks seperating especially with a kid in the mix...but I grew up in a family where my mom and dad would fight constantly and that was when he was around...he is a fisherman so he wasnt around often but when he was it was volatile. Then they finally seperated when i was in 5th grade and the divorce finalised 2 years ago. My relationship with my dad never really recovered but the entire atmosphere between all my family members is so much better.


so while it sucks it is better than constant fighting.


<333

also I know I'm young but I'm always willing to listen and talk