my gf

[ANTICHRIST]

uhh let see my gf and i have been off and on for the past 9 months and all that uhh well her and i dont talk mcuh but she talks to my friends a lot and barely talkes to me anymore, we still say i love you and all that but confused

does she still like me or does she like want to be w/e me anymore

[Titan]

Your best bet is to sit down and discuss this with her. Any relationship prospers with good communication.

Sometimes, the lack of communication in a relationship is indicative of deeper issues. It is always best to not let those issues fester, and to get things out in the open sooner than later.

You may not get the response you wish to hear, but it is better than living day after day in uncertainty.

[ANTICHRIST]

ok im just afraid to find out i mean i love her shes like the best thing thtat has had happened to me and all that, my friend told me that i was clingy w/ her and all that now ive got that stopped and all that! can i ask a lil more advice??

[Titan]

Sure thing...

[dwinx]

Titan is correct. You have to have the conversation with her. It sucks because you might find out what you fear to be true, but at least if you know now you can start looking for that next special someone. I would be concerned she is communicating through your friends about being clingy.

[ANTICHRIST]

thx i talked to her and we're just gonna be friends and all that, we're gonna talk to each other tomorrow and all that

[ANTICHRIST]

thx titan and dwinx i appreciate it really, but she hurt me though

[Xemnas]

I hope everything works out for you Anti

Xem

[Titan]

Unfortunately, sometimes this is how life works.

One bit of advice, and I don't know if this applies to you or not...Take your time. Often today, I see many people in a rush to have a relationship, simply for the sake of "not being single". There is nothing wrong with being single. If you should meet someone you like, take your time to get to know the person. I daresay in most circumstances, a couple of weeks is not enough time to really get to know a person.

I have often taken a month or two to interact with a woman, to see if we connect past the "honeymoon" period. Sometimes they are willing to wait with me, sometimes not. If not, their loss.

Relationship flaws usually do not rear their ugly heads until you have been seeing someone for a little bit. Maybe this could work for you, although not everyone is the same.

[ANTICHRIST]

thx i really appreciate i needed the advice, i just need mayb e a rebound girl lol

[ANTICHRIST]

oh thx btw xemnas it will turn out ok i hope like titan said theres other girls all there but i still have some feeling for her and all that ill miss her since she was my true fav girl but thx srry if spammed

[silentwayz]

lol where's nikki when you need her antichrist.. :P

[NavyOS]

Good advice for the guy Titan. Antichrist he's right. Just hang in there and try to give a relationship some time before using the 4 letter word until you're really sure of that person. You have to take time to get to know em. Hang in there man. There's lot of fish out there. Go catch one.

[weaver]

Ya I am staying out of this one. I already think I am the clingy type

[ANTICHRIST]

wow esupt she was like that weaverwhen ur clingy