MrBowser
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some needed advice...plz help out a fellow
Posted: Oct 9, 2009, 21:18:11
ok well the story is i met this wonderful girl in the beginning of summer:wub:...first problem is we live about 8-10 hours away from each other:sad:...but we call,text, and IM each other everyday and night...then the next problem arised...about lets see-2 weeks ago parents forbid her to have any contact with me:angry:...i.e. no phone or computer...not sure what her address is and ill get random calls and text from her from time to time...but its always only for a short period of time before her parents come home...so thats like 10-30 minuts of talk time once in a blue moon....so any advice?:blink:...and yes i do like this girl...ALOT!
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Xemnas
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Posted: Oct 10, 2009, 00:13:52
.....Parents.....
Only suitable advice i can give you bro. What they don't know won't hurt 'em.
Other thing i can tell you if you THIS desperate, is to buy her a blackberry or a type of IM/phone and try to keep it secret from her parents
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viva
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Posted: Oct 10, 2009, 17:00:53
yea i agree with xemnas. u just need to sneak it from them. i wouldnt go and buy her a blackberry or anything since u can IM on any phone really lol. plus they r really expensive. u should just like talking to her secretly from her parents. not much u can do than.
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MrBowser
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Posted: Oct 11, 2009, 22:37:42
they took her phone away TT_TT she does steal the phone to call me from time to time but thats all...no computer for her either >_>
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Nikki
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Posted: Oct 13, 2009, 19:27:07
Did her parents give you or her a reason for not wanting the two of you to communicate? I would be cautious in continuing communication behind their backs as she will be the one who suffers any punishment if you are found out. If you like this girl - getting her in trouble should be the last thing you want to happen. If she calls you again - explain that you want to keep in touch - but don't want to risk her getting her parents upset. Perhaps she can talk to them and find out what their reasons are and resolve them so you two can continue communication.
Good Luck!
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Beel
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Posted: Oct 14, 2009, 00:06:54
Would it not be best to just hit out with it and find out why the parents have a problem and try to resolve that? They must have a reason for not liking you and whatever that is it won't change unless you show them that you are not what they first thought and are actually a decent guy (If you are ofcourse hehe)
Go out for a meal with them or get her to convince them to let you come up for dinner sometime. I don't really know how old you are/your current situation, but whichever is best suited for yourself do that one?
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MrBowser
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Posted: Oct 17, 2009, 03:52:34
to nikki- i asked her why and her response was they didnt give her a reason and i hope she is talking to them and finding out a reason along with a resolve
to beel- they live like 9 hours away i can drive just not that far cuz im pretty much broke and in college tryin to find a job in a practically jobless america it seems and i am a decent guy i wont hurt a fly
i just dont know what to do any more
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Beel
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Posted: Oct 17, 2009, 08:03:56
Well if you don't use your phone for a while (Since she cant really text back or anything) and save the money you would use on credit/paying the bill and save it up till u have enough to buy fuel to drive down?
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MrBowser
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Posted: Oct 19, 2009, 04:27:17
ive been thinking about doing that...either that or meet her at the first place i met her...at a camping/rock concert tour...but thats not till the summer =/
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XTR3M3
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Posted: Oct 25, 2009, 03:36:16
I am with Nikki on this one. I also think that trying to "bury the hatchet" with the parents would be your best choice. If this relationship goes to its ultimate and you guys decide to move in together or take it even further and get married...would you really want that to cause a rift between your sweetheart and her parents? If you can't get the reason from her why her parents are not liking you, have you asked to contact them directly to try and resolve this? If you "really like this girl" like you say, you should bite the bullet and try and win the parents over, rather than cook up ways to get around them.
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MrBowser
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Posted: Oct 27, 2009, 22:01:42
im sad to say this it hurts me alot but maybe its time to say good bye to her and fotget this whole mess...thanks to all of you but i think the best thing to do is say good bye to each other for good and move on...and it does hurt me deeply that i've come to this decision but maybe its for the best....
Sometimes, the words we speak are not the words we want to say.
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