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Paulmclaughlin4
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Posted: Mar 6, 2009, 08:54:30
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You should just have fun and not get tied down!!! Party on!!!!!! <3

superboy92
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Posted: Mar 6, 2009, 16:31:40
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Quote from Paulmclaughlin4:
You should just have fun and not get tied down!!! Party on!!!!!! <3


If he just wants to party on, he would probably not start an topic about it. I think he really wants her back, so i think that your post is just pointless, and only tells what you would do.
You also never had an girlfriend who you really really liked, because otherwise you would know how it is to get dumped by a girl who you really like.

I just want to say to hebrewhammer that if she really loves you, she will take you back. because almost no boys ever tell there girlfriends the kissed some1 else. so there is an good opportunity that she remembers that, and that you told her because you felt sorry.

anyway.. i wish you good luck :wink: I hope it will work out.

F1r3fx
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Posted: Mar 6, 2009, 20:49:42
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Yeah exactly, and even though it may seem like it somewhat hurt the relationship between you guys right now, it really would just make it even stronger in the future because you both know how much you love each other with trust. It will go just fine.... just don't screw it up =P

SaPpHiRe
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Posted: Mar 8, 2009, 14:06:35
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anyone will at least appreciate your honesty. You did the right thing by telling her what happen, and you should emphasize on it, letting her know that your intentions are all in the right place. If she doesn't accept it and wont take you back, then sadly it wasn't meant to be. Good luck! Hope things turn out for the best <3

Yikes
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Posted: Mar 8, 2009, 22:57:18
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Sorry to read and hear about your problem hebrew:crying:

Here is my two cents on the whole problem.

Who goes to a party without their girl? Is there some unseen issue that prevented her from going?

I have had girls kiss me that knew I had a girlfriend...I did not kiss them back! Sometimes we don't really know what we have until its gone.

Trying to play it cool and not talking to her about it and letting her "cool off" is a bad idea. The reason is that most of the time when you do this it shows her that your ignoring her or don't really care. It also allows scum bags like that guy to tell her crap that is not true.

When talking to her be calm and show your true emotions this is done by listening to her while she tells you what the major problem is. Don't interupt her and respond with more than a yes/no.

It is hard to give advice without knowing the whole story. How long did you guys date for? How long has she known you for? If she has known you a long time has this situation ever happend while you where dating someone else that she knows about? Alot of factors come in to play with advice..without knowing the whole story WRONG advice can be given.

To help in the meantime here are some helpful hints.

1. Be romantic. (Send her flowers, candy, cards)
2. Leave her love notes and apologize. (show your true feelings)
3. Respect her when she says enough. (Don't stalk her!)
4. Kick the ever loving crap out of that guy! (Just joking)
5. Prepare for the worst. (Don't expect her to come back!)

I have to say that it was just a kiss. At college sometimes more than just kissing happens. She is testing you. She wants to know how you truley feel and how far you would go. Chicks love to test guys..expect it all the time. Be cool calm and collect with her sometimes you need to tell her what she wants to hear...while still being honest. Be mature with her in regards to "the guy" and his comments. Let her know that you and him are not friends and there is no way he knows anything about you or what you do and leave it at that.

Keep in mind that sometimes its just not ment to be. This might have been a way "out" for both of you.

GOOD LUCK!

YiKeS

lemon
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Posted: Apr 20, 2009, 17:51:47
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you did the right thing mate,

glad it has been resolved. :)


really right?


-Lemon

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weaver
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Posted: May 8, 2009, 16:39:51
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I am going to try this.. kiss another girl, tell Nikki and see what she does..

wait..

no ..

lemon
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Posted: May 9, 2009, 00:11:38
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I am going to try this.. kiss another girl, tell Nikki and see what she does..

wait..

no ..


This game is not so easy - I have been trying on this from last 3-4 years but failed :-(

So got a new plan:

1. Need to keep present relationship healthy and sound and to be entrusted.

2. Have fun :wub: with another one who is out of country. (over net , sms etc ;) )

3. Sometimes visit this country and kiss up ... try kissing top to bottom :lol:

Believe me - I have started applying this Algorithm - success rate virtually 99.9% - just now matter of time to implement in real :unsure:


-Lemon

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hebrewhammer
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Posted: May 9, 2009, 16:09:27
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I am going to try this.. kiss another girl, tell Nikki and see what she does..

wait..

no ..


Why do I get the feeling you are calling me stupid Weaver ;-p
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