Top 3 qualitites you look for in a guy!

[teh-pwnzer]

I know most people have a preset "radar" (lol) when meeting someone new of the oppostite sex. I know that there are different things that I look for in a guy. Some of you may have more than three, some may have less, and some may even have none!!

So my questions is this: If you had to choose three qualitites that you look for in a guy, what would they be. Those of you that are married, please share some of your thoughts on this topic also.

Mine are:
1) Sense of humor
2) Intelligence
3) Physical appearance (I must be attracted to them)

[Cok0nuts]

1. Personality - Needs to be complimentary to my personality, or can just handle me.

2. Intelligence - I like smart guys, what good is one if we both don't know how something works Plus it's super sexi to me. O.o

3. Assertiveness

Looks is important to me only for myself, just because I was brought up that way? I don't know if that makes sense but I mean, I have to look pretty cause "it gets you the promos and attention". I've grown somewhat out of it tho, I want to be a nurse so who cares what I look like if I have your life in my hands >: ).
For guys, as long as i feel attracted to them then it's ok. I'd rather prefer the cute-dork types though. ^_^;

Personality is my #1. I'm ashamed to say this, but I've broken up a lot of times after awhile with guys because I got bored. V.v although they don't know that's the reason. "its me, not you" :-\ ( they just couldn't keep up *shakes head sadly*)

I'm kinda picky when it comes to guys I wanna see. I wanna be able to chose the guy, not the other way around.

Edit: Oh yeah, no clingy guys. :\

[XTR3M3]

I don't mean to intrude in you gal's post but the "no clingy" thing is true for us guys too.

[Raven]

Originally Posted by teh-pwnzer

Mine are:
1) Sense of humor
2) Intelligence
3) Physical appearance (I must be attracted to them)

Cool i score highly in your top 2 then Nat!

Not going to go into your number 3 though

Rob

[cpnichol]

Here's one you've not mentioned yet, in an online survey of 1,500 women the top answer to the most desirable personality trait in a man was........



Caring about the environment

I'm not making that up.

New Consumer | News | Women fancy green guys, says Nuts

[Cok0nuts]

That's so weird. But anyway, this is personal preference .

[fallen1]

damn, looks like I'm SOL...

[teh-pwnzer]

cpnichol: Did you say ...... environment? VERY strange!

Raven: you ALWAYS make me laugh! You must have a pretty good sense of humor since you put up with me and my 911 calls for so long!

[Titan]

I'm very attractive, well, at least thats what my mother says.

Mothers wouldn't lie, would they?

[Nikki]

My top 3 would have to be...

1) Intellect
2) Humor
3) Strength of character (honest, compassionate, sensitive, empathetic, etc.)

My husband and I will celebrate our 8th anniversary on 8/14. He fits all of the above categories!

Nikki

[Cok0nuts]

Originally Posted by fallen1

damn, looks like I'm SOL...

What's SOL?

[teh-pwnzer]

Cute Cokes! I'll tell ya in game!

[Greenblaster]

(SOL = S*** out of luck)

[weaver]

Im screwed if i ever get divorced