Well Peter, i may not be an SP admin or a relationship expert but we all know what your going through and il try help all i can,
Its quite common for best mates of the opposite gender to like eachother/the other, everyones been there.. thats why i believe you got defensive when you found out about your mate tofu liking lorelei, maybe you were hoping she would turn around to you and admit she always felt something for you..? i maybe wrong but thats what i've been through
As you say you feel to 'macho' to talk through it with them lol i know exactly what you mean.. its awkward.. no one wants to do it.. but maybe blend it into a convo your having.. so it seems you kinda dont care, just wondering kinda thing.. if you get me..
And you have loads of friends and loads of female friends, maybe get to know some more of them a lil better.. but obviously not so much you ditch your best friends.. as you dont want to turn into the thing you most hate
Whatever happens your still going to be best mates with Lorelei no matter what, and i doubt her and tofu will last forever, theres plenty of lasses out there waiting for you
Kinda wrote a lot.. and i've shocked myself lol hope i've helped a little.. il try help further if your problem isnt solved, and all the best for you and this girl and that the recent events haven't spoilt you and tofu's friendship as you've been through a lot together.. talk to him about it
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