Unfortunately, sometimes this is how life works.
One bit of advice, and I don't know if this applies to you or not...Take your time. Often today, I see many people in a rush to have a relationship, simply for the sake of "not being single". There is nothing wrong with being single. If you should meet someone you like, take your time to get to know the person. I daresay in most circumstances, a couple of weeks is not enough time to really get to know a person.
I have often taken a month or two to interact with a woman, to see if we connect past the "honeymoon" period. Sometimes they are willing to wait with me, sometimes not. If not, their loss.
Relationship flaws usually do not rear their ugly heads until you have been seeing someone for a little bit. Maybe this could work for you, although not everyone is the same.
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