[sir-understeer]

Exactly, when I proposed to Krystal, she was hoping that I would propose to her soon, because we've been together for about 5 years at the time, and I felt that it was the right time to move forward, seeing as I was out of college and all that jazz.

When and how I did it, was a surprise to her, and to myself as well. It was definitely spontaneous, but at the same time, it made sense.

We are both of the notion that, you don't get married to get divorced. That is dumb. You get married to spend your lives together, for as long as the both of you shall live. The things the priest says as the vows, those aren't just for dramatic effects. What he says is true. If you don't think it is, then marriage isn't right for you.

Honestly, if you didn't feel right, you shouldn't be pressured into say yes! Kinda like having sex. If you aren't ready, the guy shouldn't pressure you into it. As a matter of fact, when it comes to sex, the guy can be arrested for that!

So honestly, don't feel bad that you turned your guy down Pwnzer.

Marriage is a 2-way street, if it wasn't, then either there's gonna be a head-on collision, or the person is traveling down a 1-way lane by his or herself.