there is almost nothing in our world that is absolute, i have been married 2 times so far lol (always looking for my future ex-wife ok) and the marriage i am currently in is wonderful and everything i hoped marriage should and would be. the first marriage i was young dumb and should have been thought through much more then i did. as a result it ended with 2 people hating each other because they were never on the same page in there feelings, life and all things a relationship should include.
my proposal can from left field because i told my wife i would never get married again after what happened with the first marriage i was in but after a few life altering changes that had been made towards and for each of us it was the only option in the world to me. keeping her forever by my side was all i could think about, i just didn't let her in on my secret lol. i always knew she wanted to be my wife and it just had to sink in to me that it was not only the right thing to do but the only thing to do if i wanted to be happy for the rest of my life was to include her in it and make her happy for the rest of her life.
if your unsure then let him know this because the things posted here are all good advice as you don't want to find out later you made the decision for someone else not your own true feelings.
not all choices are easy and filled with joy, some are filled with remorse and sadness. to me it sounds like you have your mind made up as to whether you want to say yes or no. if its from your heart then say it to the world.
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