My opinion is the marriage proposal should not feel like it came "out of left" field. If one of the partners feels like that, the proposal was way too premature. I was always taught that your parterner should always know how you feel. Bad communication causes sooooo many problems. You should not feel bad about saying "No" to anything you aren't sure about or don't want to do....especially marriage. If you have doubts, there is probably a good reason.
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