I definatly see where you are comin' from when you say get out there and see what happens. But maybe you can agree with me, at my age group of 21, that place generally means the bar, or on the internet. 2 places I usually dont go to meet girls. And the reason I dont want to meet people at work, is because I have done that before and wow, it was kind of awkward after the fact.
And hey, I always listen
But I like your ideas on joining clubs that are in my interests. I was actually looking at an archery club not too long ago. maybe I should actually go do it lol