[TJ1adam12]

Originally Posted by God_like

Where having a kid in february.

Her being pregnant can surely alter her personality etc….. Maybe right now she’s NOT feeling sexy etc… and that’s why you’re not getting the responses you were looking for? Becoming pregnant is surly a significant emotional event (S.E.E.) which often times can dramatically change ones personality. Sometimes it’s a permanent change and other times it’s temporary. Time will tell…………

She just acts like its normal. So what should i do? Give me some good advice lol.

One of the phrases/questions that I have perfected in my 25+ years of marriage that might assist you would be to simply state; “______(her name), have I done something recently that upset or offended you?”

What you have done by asking this question is to take ownership that it may have been something you have done, but furthermore, typically the question will be followed by an “Oh no, I have just been feeling crappy lately” or something to that effect. The great part of asking this question is typically you’re then going to be asked why you asked such a question, hence, this opens the window of opportunity to say something to the effect of;

“Well it’s just that I have been trying to set the mood and make sure you know how much I love you etc… but lately, you just seem to not even notice all the nice things I do”

BAMB, you have just been able to voice your concern without it initially sounding like your complaining…yee haw! The only caution I will tell you is, be prepared for hearing an answer you may not have expected.

Best of luck to you.

T.J.