Sarge,
I don't think I can provide an age to tell when you are ready to have sex. The most important thing is you have to make sure you are ready for is any consequences that may arise from sexual activity (i.e. pregnancy, illness, etc). Sex is fun, it feels good, and provides a closeness in your relationship. But at the same time, it's not something to take lightly. I was 15 when I became sexually active and even though I was probably not mature enough to handle anything that could have happened, I knew the person I was with loved me. I knew in my heart that he would have stood by me no matter what. He is still to this day a very dear friend and holds a special place in my heart.
To answer the question you posed as your subject. Yes - if you are in a committed relationship and are mature enough to handle anything that comes with having sex, then it is important. If you are young and just want to have sex to say that you've had it - then you are doing it for the WRONG reasons.
<3
Nikki
