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Originally Posted by teh-pwnzer
This used to be an anti-stress thing for me....it just isn't anymore. If anything else, it's causing more stress in my life.
People don't seem to understand that I cannot solve all THEIR problems. Sometimes, recently I've been getting stressed just from listening to others talk about their problems. I sometimes don't know what advice to give, sometimes I don't want to get involved, sometimes I don't want to talk about my problems...and I come out looking like a "B***H"...yes, with a capital B! That's what I mean by "taking it all too seriously".
I don't mind ppl coming to me, especilly friends...that's what friends are for. But people have to also understand that somedays I may be down, maybe I'm going through something. Idk, it's jsut that sometimes I feel overburdened and I want to turn everything off! Just for a while. Top all that with having things of your own to deal with...stress outside the game...and well, here I am!
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Well there is where the problem lies. You dont need to help everyones problems. You have to be able to tell them to in a nice way lol that you cant help them. Especially if its someone your not close with you can tell them that you cant help them. And you need to talk about your problems. Unless of course its something personal. But if its something about cs:s you should be more than willing to talk to someone
as thats not personal. Also if people are starting to worry about you
There starting to notice something is very wrong
with that said Nat im always willing to talk with you. If you feel like your to stressed with everything you just need to not play for the day. and relax watch tv :P