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Originally Posted by teh-pwnzer
Bump*****Sorry  Just saw this.
How true Fem...There have been times when I've had to fall back on my friends to get it together and continue on. Going through that right now. If it wasn't for my clanmates and very close friends on here...I probably would have taken an extended vacation!
The truth is that sometimes you do have to take a step back and evaluate your life. You need to prioritize what's going on in your life, because it can get a bit overwhelming! I think with the right balance, you can be happy. Right now, I'm trying to figure out that balance.
I mean even Raven, the Great Guru of Spawnpoint has had feelings like this....just not knowing, that feeling of "ugh"....what am I doing. I'm sure he came to terms with it, made a few changes in his life and is now happy! *must talk to Raven*
It's gotten to the point where I, (nicknamed "ScrimQueen") do not want to scrim, play matches anymore... *sigh* . I'm hoping this is just a temporary thing and with a few changes I'll be on the road to normalcy!
My biggest problem: I take things too seriously! I internalize everything. Too many things are starting to bother me and sometimes I want to "ma_ban#all"..without the quotes!  Oh...and another thing...I feel like I'm starting to lose my sense of humor  I think that when that happens, you should just uninstall and crawl under a rock!!!!!
So, in closing....Fem I love your quote. I couldn't have said it better myself! 
Afterthought: This is not a rant...it's just what it is. I read Fem's quote and it touched me as to how true it is. Just reflecting upon it. |
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Originally Posted by FemFatale
Pwnz, one way to dig up an old thread
and two, ask anyone who has spent time with me in vent or in game I take things way to seriously (alpha knows)
It's true this game gets frustrating...and it is especially hard for us girls. We have to deal with a ton more stuff than the guys, which totally sucks. But I think it helps having friends to fall back on.
since my last post my game experience has gotten so much better.
Sorry for digging up an old thread. No infractions please   |
Ok heres my thing ill chime in on the taking serious part. Ok i take this game very serious im so competitive. Everyone should know this
. And sometimes it leads me to being stressed or pissed off or any other angry mood. But ill get pissed for 2 minutes and im back to normal after you need to relieze that you need to relax. Here's my most recent reason to relax, playing pissed off or stressed makes you play worse
so if im stressed im going to do bad so i just let steam off maybe a curse or 2 in vent :P or to myself.
Now for pwnzers life and game balance. You need to just look at it as game you play to enjoy your self when you have time or to get away from things in your personal life. This tbh is my anti stress for real life lol. It may cause ingame stress but i can deal with that but rl stress i just like to play and take my mind off of it. As for the woman playing and getting harassed i make a big deal out of it
i WILL ban anyone who decides to harass someone i dont take it lightly. I find it very rude and i wont accept it.
I also agree with davie talking to someone here that you can trust and that is very understanding and can give you help and is offering is a great idea
I go to people if im stressed with things just cause telling others will lead to them trying to help you understand things. And its like getting things off your chest its like a weight being lifted instead of keeping it in and dealing with it yourself telling others can help you relieve stress and support you in your time that you are down in the dumps.
ps. Ill take infractions :P